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Friday, April 4th, 2008
4:38 pm - intro.

brits_fic
Name: Brittany
Age: 20
Gender: Female.
From: San Diego, CA

Why do you believe in waiting till marriage?: I believe in waiting till marriage because only I own my body and I don't want random hook ups. I've seen some close friends make huge mistakes, pregnancy scares and contracting HIV, in our society today I want to make sure I know my partner and love my partner before I am with them.

Does religion have anything to do with your choice?: Nope, not at all. I'm a strong believer in morals without religion.

What’s your opinion on pre-marital sex?: I'm not judging of other people, if other people want to have sex before marriage I certainly don't condemn them. It's just not for me.

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Friday, March 28th, 2008
3:16 pm - Hello.

angelxdiscordia
Name: Tara.
Age: 18.
Gender: Female.
From: New York.

Why do you believe in waiting till marriage?: This probably sounds cliche and so cheesy, but I think it would be a lot more special. Also, I'd rather just have one sexual partner for the rest of my life, instead of going through two or more. Sex should be with someone you love whole-heartedly, and I hope that it will be an emotional experience. I'm glad that I have a boyfriend who feels the same way! ♥ Waiting until marriage/"the one"/etc. also cuts my risk of getting an STD.

Does religion have anything to do with your choice?: Nope, not at all. I have nothing against religion, it's just not for me. However, I still have lots of morals! :)

What’s your opinion on pre-marital sex?: Well... if other people choose to have pre-marital sex, that's their own business.

Pictures (optional)?: *points to userpic*

current mood: awake

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Sunday, December 24th, 2006
10:27 pm

calcgoddess1183
I understand why we are supposed to wait for marriage, and until really recently I was all for it and excited about it and just gung-ho about it.

But, what's a person supposed to do if they have desires, but they don't want to get married, they just want to get laid for the physical part of it? I have decided that marriage is not something that I want to go into. I'm not into submitting, I don't want to be some guy's bitch, I don't like all the togetherness, I don't like how I will have to consult my husband before I make any decisions, and, divorce is too messy. It's too much of a risk. Plus, I can't emotionally connect to a guy; I've never been able to. And, I just don't want to. I've seen people fall in love, and they lose their brains and all sense of logic. I want my feet to stay on the ground.

What's a girl like me supposed to do? Pray for God to take my desires away?

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Friday, December 22nd, 2006
2:23 pm - New Member Survey

skreyola
Name: Lincoln
Age: 29
Gender: Male
From: northwest Florida
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? I believe the only way to know with reasonable certainty that someone is going to be your partner for life is to wait until you've taken vows with them. Also, sexual activities bond you to your partner, which makes break-ups much more painful, and abstinence is the only 100% effective means of preventing STDs and unplanned pregnancy. Sex is for marriage. It's a state of vulnerability that demands commitment and trust.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? Absolutely!
What's your opinion on premarital sex? Out of a million people who have premarital sex, I think the number who continue their relationship with that same partner into a happy, healthy marriage could be counted on one hand. I'm against it, because it almost always leads to pain and relational dysfunction.
Pictures (optional)? Not at this time.

current mood: contemplative

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Wednesday, December 6th, 2006
12:49 am - Frigid.

lilithrain
Funny how one word sticks in your head. Especially since this was of a fave of the "so-called-popular" girls at school to call me because of a certain little vow of mine.

Makes me wonder if this one is still used or do these girls, who clearly lack maturity or brains, have a new one to torment those of us who actually have morals?

I had to go look this up the first time because I thought they meant the weather and it does mena that too.

cold: sexually unresponsive; "was cold to his advances"; "a frigid woman"

Just because I'm not all over the top of people, doesn't mean I'm that, but in high school I didn't want any of "that supposed cool stuff". I still don't. And if I do it's on my bloody terms. No one elses, just mine.

Don't mind me, just a passing rant.

Blessed Be
Lilith.

current mood: curious

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Thursday, August 10th, 2006
8:09 pm

searchforpurity
Name: Ell
Age: 16
Gender: Female
From: Australia
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? Because I want my marriage to be the way God wants it to be, not the way the world tells me it should be - sex is for inside a til-death-do-us-part relationship.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? It certainly does :D
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? No siree, not for me.

current mood: calm

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Tuesday, April 11th, 2006
10:28 pm

celtic_luna
thought all the girls might appreciate this, its a video for every girl, and I am sure every girl fits at least one of these
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y2hioTVESG8&search=stacie%20orrico

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Wednesday, January 11th, 2006
11:47 pm

eep54
Name: Emily
Age: 23
Gender: F
From: CT
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? I believe sex is for marriage.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? Yes!
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? See above
Pictures (optional)? I think my icon is still my pic!

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Wednesday, December 7th, 2005
11:16 pm

lena_nou
Name: Lena_Nou
Age: 18
Gender: Female
From: Iowa
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? Sex should only be for the one that you love and will stay with forever. For your spouse, and beloved.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? Yes, definitely, but also it's my own choice as well.
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? Why give yourself to someone else before you're married? I don't want it.

current mood: chipper

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Tuesday, November 1st, 2005
10:06 am

lma_blo0dybitch
Since I'm supposed to fill this out...

Name: Sonia
Age: 20
Gender: I'm a female, Huzzah!
From: Chicago, IL. I miss it. =(
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? I just don't think sex was created for pleasure, rather than reproduction. o_o So many people get knocked up with some guy who's name they've yet to learn. Sheesh, it's not a sport.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? Nah, I'm not religious, I have faith instead. I believe religion is simply a set of rules and a community to go along with it, but that's a different subject entirely.
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? I don't think it's a "sin" persay, but I'm not going to go ahead and say just because you're in love it makes it right either. I just think marriage is that ultimate bond that PROVES you're in love, and sex won't be cheap and tawdry at that point.
Pictures (optional)?

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It's meeeeeeeeee. :D

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That's my sister on the side, making stupid faces LOL.

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Ok let's even things out, here's me with a stupid face too, lol.

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Thursday, October 20th, 2005
4:11 pm - New Member

vicksterg
Name: Vicki
Age:21
Gender:Female
From:Boothwyn, PA
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? Because I believe that your virginity is a gift from God and you should wait till marriage to give your spouse your virginity. I think you should only be that intimate with someone you are married to and love.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? Yes, I'm christian and it's says in the Bible that we should refrain from it till marriage.
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? Agianst it.
Pictures (optional)? Don't have a scanner, so no picture.

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Wednesday, August 17th, 2005
6:01 pm - Yay, I'm a member.

tjthedj58
Name: TJ
Age: 18
Gender: Male
From: West Virginia
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? It's in the Bible, minimizes trauma when you break up, you don't have to explain anything to an angry father in the present, you don't have to explain anything to an angry wife in the future on why she waited and you didn't, it would disappoint my family... the list could go on and on. Bottom line: It's supposed to be better if you wait. And I just wanna save myself for my wife.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? Yes, I'm a Christian.
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? Against.
Pictures (optional)? None right now.


current mood: peaceful

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Sunday, July 31st, 2005
4:11 pm - Bright Blessings!

lilithrain
Name:
Teresa.
Age:
25.
Gender:
Female.
From:
Australia.
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage?
Becuase i believe that this is a gift that is unique to me, that only I can give my partner.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice?
It did for a start as I was brought up a Catholic.
What’s your opinion on premarital sex?
If other people want to do that then that's their choice but for me, it's just not my gig. ^_^

Blessed Be
Lilith.


current mood: content

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Thursday, July 7th, 2005
9:03 pm

xgoofyxo
hey im new but im not posting the survey b/c im not really new..just a new lj..im in this community on my other name xalisaxo as weel but i thought id say this was me to. Welcome to all new members!

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Tuesday, June 28th, 2005
9:57 pm - NEW

collider_jx
Name: Alaina
Age:20
Gender:female
From:San Joaquin,CA
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? Cause it's a sin not to,and plus,it's so dangerous now a days to do anything because of aids.I want my body to be for my husband!
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? Yes
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? I hate it.I have to hear about it with all my friends,and it's embarresing.

current mood: amused

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Thursday, June 2nd, 2005
11:47 pm - I'm a new member! woo

so_l0vely
Name: Jennie
Age: 20
Gender: Female
From: Virginia
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? I believe that sex is meant for your husband (or wife). I think it is a very special thing that shouldn't be shared with anyone but your spouse.
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? Yes, very much so.
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? I think that it is very wrong, a sin.
Pictures? One of me then one of me and my sweetie on Christmas (it's the best one of us so far!)



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Wednesday, June 1st, 2005
3:31 pm

xalisaxo
Name: Alisa
Age: 16
Gender: Female
From: Boston!
Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? I believe sex is ment for marriage, not to be done before. I also don't want to end up like people i know who will sleep with anyone, basicly, a sex-addict. I also don't want the risk associated with it and i dont want to go through the attatchment, especially at 16, becuasae let's face it...high school relashionships don't last...
Does religion have anything to do with your choice? no im not religious, i was just brought up to believe in sex is ment for marriage.
What’s your opinion on premarital sex? Obviously, i am against it but it doesn't bother me except for "one night stand" type things.

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Monday, May 23rd, 2005
6:24 pm

_pinkcess
Name:
Erika.

Age:
18.

Gender:
Female.

From:
Somewhere around Dallas, Texas.

Why do you believe in waiting till marriage?
I believe in waiting until marriage, because I'm a Christian and am set on following God's intentions; therefore abstinence until marriage is a definate thing for me. Not only that, but I couldn't do something that big without a lifelong commitment behind it. I would hate to look at my husband on my wedding night and have to basically say "Well, I didn't think you were good enough to wait for."

Does religion have anything to do with your choice?
I'm not religious, I'm a Christian, and His word does have a small part, yes, but even when I wasn't a Christian I still felt this way.

What’s your opinion on premarital sex?
It's a sin and it's wrong.

Pictures?:
Not right now, but when I get them scanned, yes.

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Thursday, April 21st, 2005
9:02 am - Hello Everybody =)

jcampfan

Name: Tara

Age: 18

Gender: Female

From: Franklin, Pennsylvania

Why do you believe in waiting till marriage? It's more special and I want to show my husband that I loved him so much that I was willing to wait. I don't want to be like the people around here (my neighborhood) who throw themselves to the first person they find.


Does religion have anything to do with your choice? I made this choice before I became involved with God, but now it's having more of an influence.

What’s your opinion on premarital sex? It's sad and there's too many risks. Most of all, I think it's gross.

Pictures (optional)?

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Friday, April 1st, 2005
4:02 pm

davidcougle
Name: David Cougle

Age: 26

Gender: Male

From: Hammond, Louisiana

Why do you believe in waiting till marriage?
It is God's desire, I expect the same of my wife, avoid emotional and physical baggage.

Does religion have anything to do with your choice?
Yes, there is no reconciliation with premarital or extramarital sex and Christianity. This isn't just my opinion, it's what Jesus said.

What’s your opinion on premarital sex?
It's a sin, period.

Pictures (optional)?

From my biz website(and what I submitted to law school)

David Cougle

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